Why do you like boating?

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I had a thought while I was reading a boating magazine on the subway. Maybe one of the reasons I am so taken by boating is that I spend so much of my life in steel tubes, underground, or indoors with no view of the sun, sky, or water. Not unlike a prisoner. And I thought that is not a bad topic for a post on Boater Ed – “Why do you like boating"?

I have only been boating for a few years. I have always loved the water, but never thought seriously about getting a boat for the usual reasons, time, money, knowledge, etc. But my wife grew up in a boating family, and I saw some of that lifestyle while we were dating years ago. Every summer we would visit my in-laws at their cabin near a lake in the Adirondacks, and I always thought how great it would be to have a boat on it. In the end I decided to take matters into my own hands and get a boat myself. As I conducted my research it became clear that getting a boat for a once a year trip to a lake 6 hours away was not practical. Then I realized that I actually live on any island myself, only 10 minutes from the water. My wife tried to talk me out of it, explaining that I did not understand the level of commitment required, the costs, etc. But I said I felt strongly that it was something I wanted to try, it was something we could share as a family, and we were at a point in our lives where we could afford to do it. I felt if it did not work for us, it would cost some money for the experiment but we could move on. I did not feel it was something I could just put off until I retire, first because who knows if/when that will be and second because getting around a boat does require some physical ability. I did not want to wait too long.

Unfortunately no one in my immediate circle of friends and family were current boaters, but through them I was able to make contacts and get taken out. Their views on boating were mixed. Some absolutely loved it and it was central to their lives. Others tried it and were dissatisfied. Typically these people had limited training, owned older boats with persistent mechanical issues and/or boats that did not meet the needs of the entire family. I did my research with my family and eventually settled on a new 27' express. I did not feel I had the knowledge and expertise to own a used boat, and I wanted a good dealership to back me up. And I succeeded. I hired a professional Captain for lessons, joined a club, and began to learn the skills required to have fun and be safe on the water. Despite all my preparations and training, we have had our share of misadventures. The time we were following a group of boaters in larger boats to an air show, and I hit the wake of the boat in front of me the wrong way during a sharp turn. I felt like Maverick in Top Gun when he runs into the jet wash of the plane in front of him. Fortunately we recovered, but the boat heeled over severely. Or the time I was slowly motoring towards another boater to say goodbye and did not correctly predict the ‘scoot' and avoided a collision only by throwing it into reverse and gunning it. Of the time I got caught up on debris dumped off a bulkhead and overheated my engine trying to get unstuck. Or the time I ran over a crab trap and got the line caught in my propellers. You get the idea.

But even through these issues, it opened up a whole new world for us. I love waking up on the water and seeing the sunrise. Or walking on the beach at dawn. Or drinking with friends at a nice marina, no house to take care of, no job to deal with. Everything we need contained on our little floating home. Watching my kids play in the water, finding marine life, being outside away from video games and tv and all that is wrong with the world.

The downside is it is expensive. Ruinously expensive. But compared to just living your life in a steel tube, underground, with no daylight, it really isn't that expensive at all. And as they say on Star Trek - the adventure has just begun.

What's your answer?

Vic
 
This is not a question that can be answered with just a few words. Maybe a few pics will say a few thousand words.

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Wow Vic, you really nailed it. My lifestyle is so different but I can really appreciate where your viewpoint somes form since my son live in Soho and evertime we visit him I go crazy with all the subways and crowded sidewalks.

As a child in Columbia, SC , my parents bought a small piece of land on a nearby lake and placed a tiny camper trailer on the land which was find for the parents and my sister and I slept in a nearby tent, but they also bought an 18" aluminum boat with an 18HP Evinrude motor and that was the ticket. We learned to ski behind that boat when I was only 6 years old. Every weekend was spent at that place and may times during the summer, my Dad would drive everyday the 40 miles to work while we stayed at the lake. It was so special being on and in the water everyday.

When my wife and I decided to change our lifestyle and jump out of the corporate world and buy our own business, we decided to move to the coast and so a boat was not very far away. We have learned to love the change that the coast provides, the change of tides dictate the activity of the day. The sunsets, the sunrises, the mid days are all so wonderful that I do not think we would boat any where else.
 
Wow! Where to start.
Rowing in the quiet water, gazing over-side and wondering whats down there.
The fresh smells, the fish, the distance gazing, the gently movement, the excitement sometimes.
Pull up on an uninhabited beach and vegetate for a few hours. Beach combing, luring Bears..bird watching.
The tinkering and fixing. Day Dreaming of changes.
All that makes the trip back to the Dock like the cruel end of a great vacation.
 
<<..."Why do you like boating?"....>>

Several reasons ...

--- Freedom of the open water. Other than outer space, it's the final frontier.

--- Camaraderire with friends / family.

--- If needed, Solitude. .... getting away from it all.

--- If wanted, .. the opposite of solitude.... big boat parties / raft-ups.

---- sights / sounds / smells

---- Bikinis.

---- Bikinis

--- Did I mention Bikinis?
 
“Why do you like boating”?

Hmmm. Tough one. I do not always "like" boating. I do always love it. Also, I am genetically addicted to it, so when without a boat I eventually go into withdrawal and get the shakes. :)

Also, I cannot comprehend someone -not- loving boating ( and the water, in general ). I have been around boats all of my life. So has my entire extended family. My wife, however was not a boater. Eventually, I got rid of her and got a larger boat. Things are much better now. ;)

In any event, I do not have the time ( or space ) to list all of the reasons, so the simple fact that I cannot live without it will have to suffice.

-edit-

Random thoughts:

No man is an island, but with a boat, you can come pretty close.

MAny miles out to sea, two things can be true at the same time: You are the master of all you can see, and yet you are the least significant thing around. The sea will keep you humble.
 
Spending time and making memories with my family and great boating friends on the water.
 
I love the water! Above and below. For those of you that don't dive, it's even prettier below. I love the boat because it allows me to live close to the water. We are full-time liveaboards now, and I love it. My wife and I took a two hour ride in the tender tonight. Met some very nice people sitting on their dock. Had a great time talking to them about the local history. Boaters are usually pretty friendly.
It can be frustrating to have my limitations pointed out to me on a regular basis, but I still love the boat. It constantly provides me with something new to learn. eg, I can rebuild a vacuflush toilet in the dark with one hand. There is nothing financially smart about this, but It still seems like money well spent. They are a lot of things in life that cost a lot less, but feel like a much bigger rip-off.
 
As the Harley riders motto says: "If I have to explain it, you wouldn't understand."

I started my life on a tobacco farm in Eastern Kentucky. One of the boundries of our property was the Kentucky River. I can't tell you or even guess the number of hours/days I spent in a wooden boat with my grandfather and uncle on that little river.

When I was 11 y/o we moved to South Florida and from then until I went away to the military my life pretty much revolved around boats. Where the Dodge Island Terminal now sets was a boat rental service named "You Steer-It" boat rentals where I worked part time. I also worked on several boats out of the Miami Yacht Basin on Biscayne Blvd in downtown Miami. I became a Divemaster at 16 and worked a SCUBA Dive boat for a season. Got my Captains License at 18 and worked a head boat for a season. (The stories I can tell about those!)

After the military I married and settled in Columbia, SC where we had a small house on Lake Murray. I had 3 boats there, a pontoon boat, a CC fishing boat and a bowrider ski boat.

Countless mornings my son and I would get up before sunrise, get in the fishing boat and go out into the middle of this quite large lake to fish for Striped Bass. Sitting there, with my son, sipping my coffee and watching the sun come up over the lake with him are some of the sweetest memories of my life. My son is gone now and it is these memories that sustains me in my later years.

I am now retired live in Northeast Florida on a canal with direct access to the ICW. As you may have read in my recent "Repower" threads I have a small Carver cruiser and just dearly love being on that boat. We cruise every small river and tributary we can get to as well as the Bahamas and out islands.

I also own a CC fishing boat.

Boating is now and always has been an ingrained part of my life and will be so until my last breath is taken on this earth.

"Oh God, how great is thy ocean and how small is my boat!"

Bob
 
Started boating at 9 years old in TN on the Clinch, Emory, & TN Rivers. First boat was 6.5' fiberglass with 4hp motor. By the time I graduated from HS I owned 3 boats including my favorite, 14' 64 Allison Craft. Memories of my youth are of my days running the rivers. After college I got into sailing and fell in love with night cruises. Today we own a small express cruiser on the Mississippi River that we trailer anywhere we want to go. On occasion we trailer the boat ET to boat on the rivers where I grew up. It is always a trip to travel miles up and down the Clinch, Emory and TN rivers and realize just how far I traveled when I was a youth.

I love being on the water, waking up to the water slapping against the hull in the morning, enjoying a cup of coffee and watch the sun rise, and enjoying a cold beer watching the sun set. So many times we just power out of the harbor and float down river and talk and enjoy the view.

David
 
I've been boating since I was 2. What do people who don't boat do on the weekends? Shop? That sounds like fun. Seriously though, I cannot ever imagine NOT being a boater...even into old age, I will find someone to carry me onto my boat. It is both a social and solitude atmosphere depending on one's specific mood at any given time.
 
I was introduced to boating at 12 when my parents bought their first boat. My father's former business partner was a boater and convinced my father to buy a 33 Caver as a first boat. My parents quickly fall in love with boating and I found a passion. My parents upgraded several times over the years and some time long after I was married and had kids of my own my parents decided to retire from boating. At that time I had already been through a couple of boats of my own small CC on a lake not far from home. It's funny how things change when I was a kid and my parents had larger boats although I loved boating all I wanted was a small run about, once my parents sold their boats, I decided it was time to move up to a larger boat this is something I never dreamed of but now I can't imagine life with out. Boating is a huge part of my life and I just can't get enough of. Now that I think about it maybe it's an addiction and I need help to quite much like drugs it drains your money, but boating gives my and my wife tremendous enjoyment.
I hope to continue to boat for many years to come as long as I can afford it, even if it means down sizing someday.
 
I love being on the water and love spending time with my family on the water. I grew up with dad's 17' bowrider and we lived on a small lake in Indiana so fishing, swimming, boating, all summer long and ice skating all winter. Now, I love being out with my family and friends and being able to spend time together. It's just a great way to live.
This video really pretty much sums it up for us:
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I had numerous go fast type boats when I was 17 until 30. Then with starting a business, kids to raise and teach and a loving wife we took a break. About 5 seasons ago I had some (lots) of extra cash and my wife and I went to a brokerage marina for just a Sunday drive. We fell in love with a 1994 Mainship Sedan Bridge called the "Loan Arranger". Well the broker was on vacation and by the time I got back to him and made a faxed deal he called me a few hours later saying sorry but he made a mistake and the boat was sold. The name of the boat caught my eye I live in a very mixed area with many older people in need and younger people disabled. I have a heart of Gold and since I had the income I made many loans knowing many would never get rapaid but I couldn't turn down someone in need. Then I found YachtWorld.com and found another 40 Mainship Sedan Bridge and after sea trials and survey purchased the boat. I ended up wanting to make the boat into something that just couldn't be done 1993. I joined the ABYC and learned a lot. We love the boat I will never ever get 1/8th of what I have in her, but it's the perfect size and layout for my wife and I. I'm also proud of most of the planning, work and electronics on her. She was completly repowered in 2007-8. That was my biggest mistake not putting diesels in her. But I'm still happy and perhaps one day when things start to turn around in the economy I'll get my diesels. Because I am planning on the eventual escape from NJ. We bought a 2 acre lot with a small cottage and 28' trailer in North Carolina called Merritt. There are 3 marinas within walking distance of the property. The plan is to eventually move there but in the summer come up with the boat and stay a few months to visit my wife's large family. I can't leave NJ at this point because my mother has Alzheimer's and as sad as this sounds she really can't be moved so I wait until she finds peace and is rejoined with my father in heaven. I learned so much about communications, WiFi, Skipper 150 VSAT, KVH systems, VSAT, extending the range of internet access through cellular carriers, with voice services and NMEA2000. I like helping other boaters on the board and in my travels. I only give advice and perhaps if or when the boating industry rebounds it could a nice retirement part time job. Especially where I will eventually retire.
Bill
 
We moved to Stony Point in 1975 and I saw all the activity on the Hudson River from the shore. In 1977 we bought a 16 ft bowrider. We kept it in Grassy Point Marina, where Pennybridge is now. We did a lot of swimming and water skiing for years with it. In 1994 I moved up to a 19 foot v hull. Then I got into fishing to have a reason to go out in the spring and fall when it's too cold to swim. The striper run in spring really got me into fishing. Now we trailer it to Key Largo Fl each winter because the fishing is so good here. My wife fishes with me in Florida but not on the river. Down here we eat what we catch. It's three and a half days to get here, 1425 miles one way but now I can boat year round. We have done this for ten years. I can't imagine laying up my boat for five months anymore. It's an addiction and a heck of a lot of fun.
 
I live on an island. Boating is like breathing.
 
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I agree with Skeet - all of the above. My work is fun, but crazy and stressful and sometimes, it's just so great to kick back, relax, listen to birds waking up in the morning, waves licking at the hull, the kids just starting to stir and the smell of coffee brewing.

On the other hand, Chessy's mention of bikinis has it's appeal as well... Power, sail, kayaks, canoes, floating chairs with drink holders... So many reasons. That's the wonder of boating!
 
When i was 15 my older brother bought a 22 foot 1958 Christ Craft on lakw winnipesaukee NH lake. we spent every weekend on that boat. then he move up to a 26 trojan. When i was 18 I bough tmy own first boat a 68 Beuhler Tubocraft jet boat.
This was me then taken by my brother from the bridge of his 72 32' trojan
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every sence then ve owned a boat, got married had a son got divorced and boating was there. For the past 25 years ive been working on boats every day and still dont get tired of them. one of my favorite times is gettign out of work and stopping and sitting in the boat for an hour or so before i go home 3 or 4 times a week.
 
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